I can't believe I have only posted 3 times in 2017, and it's already February 2018!
Honestly in January, I didn't think about any new year resolutions - I knew I could probably come up with a list of the should-have goals but I didn't think too much about it during that time because I was really caught up in my eldest brother's wedding.
Oh ya my brother got married last month - and I went back to give my blessings, of course. I probably got a lot more money as a younger brother compared to my other siblings. My eldest brother sneaked a 'double' red packet during the 'tea-drinking' thingy. I think my family low key loves me a lot, but they never say it, which I start to find it weird and unacceptable. I found western culture has a better way of strengthening relationships between people, especially with our family. I remember getting down my flight and gave my parents a hug and kisses on their faces, and everyone's looking at me like wtf. (But they can fuck themselves and suck it up. And be mature.)
Last term was really busy - I've no idea how many times I've used that phrase "really busy" in my recent blogposts. I had 4 modules, and assignments and projects and write-ups came up one after another. I also co-founded an international bioscience student association last summer, which took up another portion of my time working on the launching event.
We just had another Bio-entrepreneurial event last weekend, which was really insightful. I was so contented because the commercial director of one of the UK governmental agencies came and provided new insights and supports for start-ups based on synthetic biology. When I say start-ups that I'm interested in joining, I'm referring to those that involve actual products/technologies, not those that are based on apps, apps, and apps. IDK why so many people are swayed towards direction - I'm not saying the market's saturated. I personally can't think of any interesting ideas for an app besides a virtual bank service and that's not at all. We need disruptive products/services in order to extend the potential of the app world. And I think with what we have now, we are reaching a saturated start-up world. Just my two cents. I prefer a novel product with or without apps - because phone generally dies in terms of performance and installing apps just turns me off really quickly. The director told me that viable ideas would bring me an entrepreneurial visa in UK, which is not unprecedented. This may be a way for me to stay away from working in Malaysia. YEAH basically Malaysia is cool for vacation only really.
Back to my new year resolution...
1. Getting a summer bod ready for summer islands
I had something similar last year. And I think I performed pretty well - I've been hitting the gym very regularly 2-3 times a week since before my university started. It's been almost two years! I still remember the first time going to the gym closest to my house with my friend and ended up with a sore back, arms and thighs the other day. At the beginning, it was tough - I just wanted to spend less than an hour in the gym. My target was 20 minutes cardio + some weightlighting and machines. And to think now I have been spending 3 hours in the gym is insane!!! Time goes so fast in the tiny little place. So this year's plan is a summer bod ready really. Technically I have 4 months more - that's crazy.
2. Getting an internship
I was so stressed about internship last year. During the summer, I searched all over the internet to look for ANY research internships - I logged them into an Excel Spreadsheet, I kept it opened all day everyday! I was so stressed I couldn't sleep last term, fearing that I would never had the summer laboratory experience which leads to weak application which leads to no PhD which leads to being jobless in Malaysia. GUESS WHAT! Last week I received a GREAT news - I have secured a place in a global research programme in NTU, they are even giving me $3000 to spendddd omg (I am so ready to get a TAG HEUER now that everyone has one). SO I'm gonna say I've achieved one of my goals already! CRY. Honestly let's hope for better offers!
3. Getting into the Dean's list - or at least 1st class I hoped.
Honestly I am not very confident about this. But I'll do my besttt. Maintaining 1st Class should be fine. ohgod
4. Speak better english WITH CONFIDENCE
I know my english has definitely improved by 15-fold in terms of speaking compared to the first week of my uni. I even did like an emcee thingy in my last week's event, which is unbelievable. I can even network with professors in an occasional British accent HAHA. But I definitely seek more confidence in my speaking, and of course a better way of expressing myself.
AND that's it!! Can't really think of anything else really. Am I like a less greedy person now? Hahah.
I realised a change in my blog writing habits now - I stopped saying 'you', and I started saying 'I' - so much more of 'I'. Every time I come back here, this place reminds me of how much growth I've got, and how much better I've become. Surely I'll always come back - to fill myself with love and positive energy. <3 nbsp="" p="">
Wednesday, February 7, 2018
Tuesday, September 19, 2017
And..... 2017 is almost done!
Ok. At least my second academic year is coming.
I can't believe how time flies when life gets amazingly busy - I don't even have time to stop and reflect about what life has granted me. I guess I was quite lucky, and I'll tell you why.
It all started when I realised most Malaysians in UK had either looked for or secured summer internships for themselves despite being first year. These internships are voluntary - unlike many of the local universities that impose mandatory internship into their curriculum. You can tell how these overseas students tend to or want be more competitive, or you can call it kiasu if you would. Honestly if I were a local student, I wouldn't even think THAT much, nor would I explore the industry willingly. Why? Just like I wouldn't cook in Malaysia - I will never feel sufficiently prepared for the next steps. Or maybe I don't need to. (or I'll have to do it at some point of my education anyway, so why NOW?)
That was in March, when everyone was busy preparing for the finals in the third term. I looked at all the internships I can apply. I applied to Penguin UK for both internships and work experience, and got rejected. I applied to a few Malaysian laboratories - either I receive nothing at all or they don't take in overseas students - now that it all sounded so ironic to me, at the very time when everyone recognised the sheer quality of overseas STEM education over the local ones.
FUCK them. I decided to look for biotechnology companies, and I decided to write this company a cover letter, attaching my CV on it. The company didn't normally take in interns as they do not have an official internship program. The CEO (?) then notices my cover letter - it went pretty well. Just as we were trying to schedule the interview, I requested for more information about the interview as I wanted to know what the meeting is about. Funny thing then happened. I was reprimanded for not knowing what is going on, and what the company is doing blah blah blah. I swear that is still the most ridiculous thing I have ever encountered in my life other than Diary of a Wimpy Kid. He clearly misunderstood what I was trying to say even after my explanation, insisting that I had an 'incorrect perception about what the company is doing.'
WOW, now it all seemed like a secondary-primary-school-again hierarchy where the age defines your omnipotency to sentence people to death. I know how they like to shape this 'old is wisdom is good' kinda spirit so we always respect old people BUT does reality work like that? It's like telling people that the youth cannot be more successful than the elderly. IDK why I'm so triggered but that's fine - he still offered an interview, and I declined it after days of considering the cultural fit issues. Nahh... not about that life. I held on to the dignity I have, and continued look for my summer placement.
Eventually I landed on an internship in Grab. I was super lucky to have my friend who informed me about this opportunity from his manager, who happened to be a good friend of my boss. And even this internship requires a phone interview, something I was quite afraid of, and a case study over the phone. And surprisingly I secured the opportunity right after the phone interview - can't believe it! Hence it took up two months of my life here.
Well actually I was reluctant to join. My dad wasn't supportive of this decision as well since it's neither research related nor in any way related to my academics. Maybe he thought that I might as well work in his company. But I didn't want to waste my summer doing nothing - you can say I became ambitious after a year in London. And a bit courageous while facing local companies.
Grab is a really good eye-opening platform, and my department is especially good for people who want to take a look at the corporate side of the company. And I guess it gives you the perks of being in a fast-paced but relaxed atmosphere while giving you a glimpse how corporate works, and how you should approach them.
Throughout the internships, I felt like I was a permanent employee, shielded by a status called intern. And it's by that status, I was brought to a higher level than I would have been if it was a permanent job. I learnt some data analysis skills using Excel that everyone claims to be they are good at when they're actually not, and some email marketing skills. It was amazing - I even get to create my own campaign and actually yielded a relatively successful and sustainable results. I guess that's the luckiest thing that happened over the summer.
See? It all seems to me that if I'm willing to take a step forward, everything turns out fine or even better than I thought. Maybe I was just scaring myself with my throughts... so many demons to fight. Oh yeah and I got a first class in my first year, though didn't get into the Dean's list. sad. but it's ok. Two more years also mean two more opportunities to fight!
I can't believe how time flies when life gets amazingly busy - I don't even have time to stop and reflect about what life has granted me. I guess I was quite lucky, and I'll tell you why.
It all started when I realised most Malaysians in UK had either looked for or secured summer internships for themselves despite being first year. These internships are voluntary - unlike many of the local universities that impose mandatory internship into their curriculum. You can tell how these overseas students tend to or want be more competitive, or you can call it kiasu if you would. Honestly if I were a local student, I wouldn't even think THAT much, nor would I explore the industry willingly. Why? Just like I wouldn't cook in Malaysia - I will never feel sufficiently prepared for the next steps. Or maybe I don't need to. (or I'll have to do it at some point of my education anyway, so why NOW?)
That was in March, when everyone was busy preparing for the finals in the third term. I looked at all the internships I can apply. I applied to Penguin UK for both internships and work experience, and got rejected. I applied to a few Malaysian laboratories - either I receive nothing at all or they don't take in overseas students - now that it all sounded so ironic to me, at the very time when everyone recognised the sheer quality of overseas STEM education over the local ones.
FUCK them. I decided to look for biotechnology companies, and I decided to write this company a cover letter, attaching my CV on it. The company didn't normally take in interns as they do not have an official internship program. The CEO (?) then notices my cover letter - it went pretty well. Just as we were trying to schedule the interview, I requested for more information about the interview as I wanted to know what the meeting is about. Funny thing then happened. I was reprimanded for not knowing what is going on, and what the company is doing blah blah blah. I swear that is still the most ridiculous thing I have ever encountered in my life other than Diary of a Wimpy Kid. He clearly misunderstood what I was trying to say even after my explanation, insisting that I had an 'incorrect perception about what the company is doing.'
WOW, now it all seemed like a secondary-primary-school-again hierarchy where the age defines your omnipotency to sentence people to death. I know how they like to shape this 'old is wisdom is good' kinda spirit so we always respect old people BUT does reality work like that? It's like telling people that the youth cannot be more successful than the elderly. IDK why I'm so triggered but that's fine - he still offered an interview, and I declined it after days of considering the cultural fit issues. Nahh... not about that life. I held on to the dignity I have, and continued look for my summer placement.
Eventually I landed on an internship in Grab. I was super lucky to have my friend who informed me about this opportunity from his manager, who happened to be a good friend of my boss. And even this internship requires a phone interview, something I was quite afraid of, and a case study over the phone. And surprisingly I secured the opportunity right after the phone interview - can't believe it! Hence it took up two months of my life here.
Well actually I was reluctant to join. My dad wasn't supportive of this decision as well since it's neither research related nor in any way related to my academics. Maybe he thought that I might as well work in his company. But I didn't want to waste my summer doing nothing - you can say I became ambitious after a year in London. And a bit courageous while facing local companies.
Grab is a really good eye-opening platform, and my department is especially good for people who want to take a look at the corporate side of the company. And I guess it gives you the perks of being in a fast-paced but relaxed atmosphere while giving you a glimpse how corporate works, and how you should approach them.
Throughout the internships, I felt like I was a permanent employee, shielded by a status called intern. And it's by that status, I was brought to a higher level than I would have been if it was a permanent job. I learnt some data analysis skills using Excel that everyone claims to be they are good at when they're actually not, and some email marketing skills. It was amazing - I even get to create my own campaign and actually yielded a relatively successful and sustainable results. I guess that's the luckiest thing that happened over the summer.
See? It all seems to me that if I'm willing to take a step forward, everything turns out fine or even better than I thought. Maybe I was just scaring myself with my throughts... so many demons to fight. Oh yeah and I got a first class in my first year, though didn't get into the Dean's list. sad. but it's ok. Two more years also mean two more opportunities to fight!
Tuesday, April 25, 2017
Say yes, say no.
Say hi to my new computer.
It might sound foolish but I must say that the best way to familiarise a computer is to use it to write. A lot. And it's the reason why I'm here I guess.
Not really.
I miss the time when I would fall asleep while busy pouring my heart out through literature - I like to take blogpost as a type of literature. I would crawl into my bedsheets in my chilly room. And when I had a bottleneck, I would bury my head into my pillow and random sentences flowed out endlessly... I realise it's a process of self-realisation; it's all about how I feel, what I did, what I wished I did.
Sometimes I feel pathetic, though most of the time I try to be whom I supposed to be - whom I should be at this position, this privileged position.
I used to save my text messages through external services by the provide. They still sit in my email - in a folder called 'from 8 March onwards'. Stop second guessing. 8 March was no magical date or whatsoever. It's only the day I started used the services. And I looked back. I guess there's no shame about it, but it's something I tried stopping myself to do. But it was a real record of a real moment. Like a heritage from my teenage. Like a historical relic. An artefact.
I guess only loser reminds himself that how he wins, especially not in a game.
But I'm no loser. At least I'm happy how I ended up. I may once believe in a friendship that focuses on longevity - like forever close friend circle. But that is silly. I guess it's best to let everything be everything. Not everyone needed advice needs an advice, nor help, nor unnecessary support, unless one asked for.
On a side note, my first year has nearly come to an end. I have finals in two days' time.
I'm coping well I think. Can't believe it just ended.
And to think this year I met Tom Daley, Steve Jones... it's amazing.
Hey, I still can't believe I'm living in the busiest area of the busiest city in the world, even after a year. I'm puzzled, and astonished that how this fuses with my reality so well that I don't feel like I'm in another world. Have I mentioned that studying in UK was never a plan before A-levels? I guess I didn't even really know where I want to go with A-levels. Going to SMK was a surprise to both myself and my parents. Coming to London is another surprise that I just come to realisation.
Thank you world.
It might sound foolish but I must say that the best way to familiarise a computer is to use it to write. A lot. And it's the reason why I'm here I guess.
Not really.
I miss the time when I would fall asleep while busy pouring my heart out through literature - I like to take blogpost as a type of literature. I would crawl into my bedsheets in my chilly room. And when I had a bottleneck, I would bury my head into my pillow and random sentences flowed out endlessly... I realise it's a process of self-realisation; it's all about how I feel, what I did, what I wished I did.
Sometimes I feel pathetic, though most of the time I try to be whom I supposed to be - whom I should be at this position, this privileged position.
I used to save my text messages through external services by the provide. They still sit in my email - in a folder called 'from 8 March onwards'. Stop second guessing. 8 March was no magical date or whatsoever. It's only the day I started used the services. And I looked back. I guess there's no shame about it, but it's something I tried stopping myself to do. But it was a real record of a real moment. Like a heritage from my teenage. Like a historical relic. An artefact.
I guess only loser reminds himself that how he wins, especially not in a game.
But I'm no loser. At least I'm happy how I ended up. I may once believe in a friendship that focuses on longevity - like forever close friend circle. But that is silly. I guess it's best to let everything be everything. Not everyone needed advice needs an advice, nor help, nor unnecessary support, unless one asked for.
On a side note, my first year has nearly come to an end. I have finals in two days' time.
I'm coping well I think. Can't believe it just ended.
And to think this year I met Tom Daley, Steve Jones... it's amazing.
Hey, I still can't believe I'm living in the busiest area of the busiest city in the world, even after a year. I'm puzzled, and astonished that how this fuses with my reality so well that I don't feel like I'm in another world. Have I mentioned that studying in UK was never a plan before A-levels? I guess I didn't even really know where I want to go with A-levels. Going to SMK was a surprise to both myself and my parents. Coming to London is another surprise that I just come to realisation.
Thank you world.
Friday, January 27, 2017
STFU
Sometimes I just can't keep myself from ranting and ranting over the same subject with minor updates. I have too many thoughts for it.
Let me tell you a joke.
There are people who will build their relationships based on what they feel at the moment. Some people do stuff and regret it, over and over again.
When I told my flatmates my stories for the first time, I called it always-regretful person.
People would do things they shouldn't do, and regret it, and try thousands of ways to make up for it, twisting and turning every piece of self back as if things haven't happened or as if they never had the intention to do that in the first place! And that placed everyone, whom they turned to when they were trying to do things they shouldn't do, in a difficult position. And that is fucking selfish. I bet you wanna be a fishmonger, congrats I see your potential. You really EARNED IT.
In contrast, I'm very a not-regretful person. It doesn't mean that I never regret for things that I did, because saying you've never regretted stuff is categorically a bullshit. I regret for things, but I don't crawl back and pretend I never do things. I won't fuck my friendship, and regret it and pretend I never do stuff and things can go back as usual. Because when I say I wanna fuck a friendship or I wanna stay away from someone, there were people who actually supported me and meant 'yeah if that's what you want, I'll help u'. If I ever regret it and then crawl back to try to build back this relationship, how would others look at my friends? Your classical relationships destroyer, BOOM!
Now I really fuck my whatever-ship with you, I don't even want to be acquaintance.
And now that you can make me the real bad guy if you really need an antagonist to complete your story. With your shitty tongue you can say anything now that I don't really care. I don't even want someone to defend for me because I want you to feel like a pseudo-winner. That's probably the closest feeling to victory that you can ever have. You're really welcome.
I'm writing this, with the hope that you will see it, so that you realise there's no chance you can crawl back, and pretend it's anyone's fault. I've seen enough of the same drama, and I'm getting bored of it. Your wit that I once find refreshed has now turned outmoded and obsolete. I expected more, you failed me. I mean, I'm inspired to not overestimate people, really.
I once thought that I nearly got over this until I shared my story with people, realising how inspiring it is. I don't normally judge people by social classes. But this just inspires me that how people may deserve to be judged. EYE-OPENED. Thanks. And I'm sick of your hypocritical, trite, self-contradicting theories. For example 'Inner beauty is the key. Everything else is not' and 'I only have sex with my married partner'. What's wrong with being a sexual being? Why are you judging this since you're insisting inner beauty is your key? I find it hypocritical. I'm embracing all these, all of myself after realising how pathetic people can be. I mean, thank you for the drama, at least I can brag about how many plot-twists there are and how dramatic they are.
Here's a song:
Let me tell you a joke.
There are people who will build their relationships based on what they feel at the moment. Some people do stuff and regret it, over and over again.
When I told my flatmates my stories for the first time, I called it always-regretful person.
People would do things they shouldn't do, and regret it, and try thousands of ways to make up for it, twisting and turning every piece of self back as if things haven't happened or as if they never had the intention to do that in the first place! And that placed everyone, whom they turned to when they were trying to do things they shouldn't do, in a difficult position. And that is fucking selfish. I bet you wanna be a fishmonger, congrats I see your potential. You really EARNED IT.
In contrast, I'm very a not-regretful person. It doesn't mean that I never regret for things that I did, because saying you've never regretted stuff is categorically a bullshit. I regret for things, but I don't crawl back and pretend I never do things. I won't fuck my friendship, and regret it and pretend I never do stuff and things can go back as usual. Because when I say I wanna fuck a friendship or I wanna stay away from someone, there were people who actually supported me and meant 'yeah if that's what you want, I'll help u'. If I ever regret it and then crawl back to try to build back this relationship, how would others look at my friends? Your classical relationships destroyer, BOOM!
Now I really fuck my whatever-ship with you, I don't even want to be acquaintance.
And now that you can make me the real bad guy if you really need an antagonist to complete your story. With your shitty tongue you can say anything now that I don't really care. I don't even want someone to defend for me because I want you to feel like a pseudo-winner. That's probably the closest feeling to victory that you can ever have. You're really welcome.
I'm writing this, with the hope that you will see it, so that you realise there's no chance you can crawl back, and pretend it's anyone's fault. I've seen enough of the same drama, and I'm getting bored of it. Your wit that I once find refreshed has now turned outmoded and obsolete. I expected more, you failed me. I mean, I'm inspired to not overestimate people, really.
I once thought that I nearly got over this until I shared my story with people, realising how inspiring it is. I don't normally judge people by social classes. But this just inspires me that how people may deserve to be judged. EYE-OPENED. Thanks. And I'm sick of your hypocritical, trite, self-contradicting theories. For example 'Inner beauty is the key. Everything else is not' and 'I only have sex with my married partner'. What's wrong with being a sexual being? Why are you judging this since you're insisting inner beauty is your key? I find it hypocritical. I'm embracing all these, all of myself after realising how pathetic people can be. I mean, thank you for the drama, at least I can brag about how many plot-twists there are and how dramatic they are.
Here's a song:
Pink Guys - STFU
I'm doing this all because I can.
Another thing I wanna say about the vulgarity is that all your primary or secondary schools are in fact being hypocrites. I realise there are important contexts that no things other than profanity can fit in. If you don't appreciate its value in shaping and being a part of culture, you can continue living in your self-containing, complacent world. I'd love to pretend everything is ideal, but now I appreciate more the practical side of the world.
SO FUCK OFF.
I mean, FUCK OFF FROM ALL GOOD PEOPLE.
Monday, January 2, 2017
2016 in a Nutshell
I do not want to be cliché, but 2016 was truly full of 'ups and downs'.
There were good and bad times - a year of 'realising stuff'.
cliché, cliché, cliché. Cause I'm that boring.
I never realise I was that boring until I try to make friends with new people.
But I'm trying. And I'm gonna fake it till I make it, cause that's how it works bitch.
So 2016 I stayed at home for eight months, and went to Sunway in a regular interval. Thank you my friends for giving me a space to sleep. It was amazinggg
I did lots of stuff in these empty months... I waited for applications, I started watching Game of Thrones, I started gym-going, running at tanjung, and several times bumped into the guy that I fucked in the evening (wtf, thats so wrong i didnt fuck him in the evening, i bumped into him in the evening). I watched so much youtube, recorded songs and videos (a big thanks to my friends who gave me this unique experience), dreamed of being a youtuber, heard good news from CIMB to compete scholarships in a bootcamp, felt scared about the bootcamp 'cause there'll be lots of new people but played it cool in the beginning, and that's all the good stuff. I haven't mentioned how US schools didn't accept me, CIMB rejected me...
After the eight/nine months I came to London. Amazing.
On the first day I was quite terrified. It's a strange place, very strange to me.
I went out for shopping, and when the cashier asked me 'do you need a bag?', I couldn't even understand. I asked her to repeat for a few times and I couldn't get it. In the first day morning, I walked on the street and some random guy raised his glass and said 'have a nice day mate', and I thought it's a good sign for everything in UK.
First day of the school, some gigantic black guy hit on me, telling me I'm a nice person (wtf u out of ur mind), and gave me his number. I'm okay guys I'm okay. I survived through his long held handshake.
Few days after, I came out with my newly made friends, and at first the guys were like kinda awkward but they are then really nice to me while the girls were planning to bring me to a gay club and gonna see what's happening uhh. blessings haha.
Then went out with a Singaporean guy. He's okay just that he didn't realize I was this 'small'. I wanna quote his sentence 'you're so tiny'. LOLL and that didn't make out.
So the second month which is October, I signed up for a freaking expensive gym membership. I started working out three days a week. And my workout here is suddenly so much more intense than in malaysia. I would spend two freaking hours every time. I enjoyed taking my time, no rushing home. oh and not to mention the lovely people there. You know. #lockerroomlife just kidding.
And October I had so much sex until a point I was kinda in the mood of self-loathing, 'cause whom I'm meeting were mostly looking so much better in the photos. But I realized it's a process of self-discovering. I never regret it because it was interesting. When you see someone so obsessed with you and your body, and then you started questioning yourself 'is my belly real? do they not see it?'. Another realisation is that, notice everyone always says those porn penises were rare people, and penises were rarely big. And while all asian penises that I have seen it before my eyes were smaller than I first thought they should be, these western and middle east people do have big dick. BIG. but thats not the point. Polish is quite passionate though.
November and December. pshh courseworks and tests dropped onto me like a waterfall. I spent quite a long time in library. oh shit and I got 86 for Biochemistry, which has an average of 51 and its highest being 89. No idea how I did it, bitch. I do want to get into Dean's list. Then I went to Luxembourg, lovely place.
Towards the end of December, hooked up with an English (finally?), slightly taller than me. With his beautiful eyes and pretty face, but bad predisposition, which made him hot. I didn't know he's younger than me. But he did like a king, asking me to plead for pain, or pleasure. And the next day and the next day he would keep on asking for more again. In the meantime he just texted me.
Oh and I went to a club for the first time. Did some pre-drinks. Played the ring of fire, it's a not too interesting drinking game. I tried gin and tonic without tonic, which is awful. I tried tequila shots, OMG I LOVE IT! I tried some festive mulled wine, Prosecco, Cava, Rose etc.
Last night, we went to the Primrose hill with our precious Cava and we drank there with loads of other strangers, standing in the cold waiting for the new year fireworks.
Throughout the year, my lifestyle and how I look at the world have been flipped and tossed around - huge changes. Remember how I would overthink stuff and write proses or poems? I could never do that again. I don't want to start an argument just to argue about different perspectives (And I lost interests in winning arguments). I gave no fuck - this is the magic of not giving a fuck. I'm contented with my own evaluations of things, and I need not persuade anyone. I would say it's a growth, but you can say it's deteriorating or going backwards for thinking less, because many people just started to overthink at this age, and I'm like NOPE, I've had enough of that shit and I know that's not gonna help unless you wanna be an emotional writer. Is that cynical? I'm not sure, but I'm pretty sure I'm living well.
I have also totally changed my views on sex, which used to be a taboo to talk about. I used to feel ashamed talking about it even though deep down I would crave. It felt like I had successfully swum across the oceans the another island of opinions towards sex (I mean yes physically I'm in a more open-minded country). I figured out that since we're all born because of sex, why are we ashamed of it? Ashamed of talking about or doing it? You should be grateful, son. And it's funny how old people would say the inner beauty is the most that matters (as in physical factor is not important in a relationship), but in their mind they still couldn't accept sex before marriage. OH wait didn't they just mean the physical factors don't matter? Why still want people to hold virginity like it's a precious present that has to be given to a 'special' person? This doesn't make sense, and I think it's a great discrimination to ladies. (Ladies should listen to beyonce more)
My lifestyle has had an immense transformation in this year. I used to hate sports for many years due to many reasons - body shaming, bad stamina, panas etc. This year I finally picked up all my courage to the gym, from worrying to lovin' it. I love how it changes my body and confidences, and how I could sweat. Even in the holidays I felt like my day is incomplete if I missed my gym session. I feel tired for not going to gym. It's bizarre I couldn't describe it.
I also learn to cook real food. Learning all those food names is probably the hardest... linguine? zucchini? fussili? penne? Permigiano-Reggiano or Parmesan? Burritos? Churros? Gluthwein?? currywurst? poisson? boisson? #toomuch
I can't believe I'm saying this since everyone thinks 2016 is a worst year. Yeah I know in terms of what's going on with the world or Malaysia's currency, it's pretty bad, but in terms of personal life, 2016 is a year of positive transitions for me. I'm really grateful.
Happy new year guys!
2016 was amazing. I'm so excited for whatever awaits me in the near future.
Cheers mate.
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Just Settled Down
As planned, I've reached London on 17th September 2016. It was super touching for me to have my friends coming to send me off in the airport. I never felt so loved and cared. I always thought I was the kind of person whom people would not talk about when I'm not around, which sometimes can be a good thing. But to have so many people to send me off? I'm so grateful and excited to begin the new chapter of my life, totally shedding off the 'old' layers of me to become, or at least try to behave like, who I always wanted to be.
I began to love trying new stuff. I've always wanted to become someone who love trying new stuff. Back in Malaysia, I was scared of trying something new even though I'd love to. It's like I'd always hesitate for a long time and end up not going. I was surprised myself that I eventually became comfortable to try new stuff in this whole new strange environment. At the third week, which is last week, I went to YAS (Yonce Appreciation Society) first meeting, which ended up distasteful. I tried pole fitness (yeah pole dance) and I kinda like it. I went to Muay Thai taster session, terribly interesting - I'm gonna join this. I went to a gym all by myself, which I normally will feel uncomfortable because there are lots of people in there. I went to an interview yesterday for voluntering tutor programme without preparing it at all and got recruited! Miracle!
One of the concerns of mine before coming to London is that I'm gonna lose all my 'market' here. Mat Salleh ain't gonna love me and my style. I mean, even Asians themselves don't really find me attractive.
But that just isn't the case. Different people have really different perspectives. Some thought I was cute. One said I was sweet and sexy. And you can feel how passionate he is, how his eyes only have your body, and how he's trying to feel through touch. The ending started with his eyes looking blankly at the front. He asked, 'How many years are you staying here?' I said, '3 years.' He knew this wasn't lasting forever. 'What do you do?' I asked. He laughed softly, 'I'm just a security.' We both knew this isn't gonna last.
He said he was going to study pharmacy at first, but at the end he studied applied science. A moment of silence. He is an Iranian.
I didn't dare to ask more. He stared emptily into the air. At the moment I thought I saw his disappointment.
When REALITY hits, what should people really do?
We knew there wasn't a single positive possibility.
He's huge and warm and firm. He said he'll spend more time here next time, maybe watch a film. I laughed.
Now that the application was updated into a new one and it got renewed.
All the data is gone.
Maybe this is how reality hits. him (or me).
I've always thought that English movies never really touch me deeply. I always say I feel more love in Chinese songs.
Nonetheless, now I am grateful for feeling loved...
I began to love trying new stuff. I've always wanted to become someone who love trying new stuff. Back in Malaysia, I was scared of trying something new even though I'd love to. It's like I'd always hesitate for a long time and end up not going. I was surprised myself that I eventually became comfortable to try new stuff in this whole new strange environment. At the third week, which is last week, I went to YAS (Yonce Appreciation Society) first meeting, which ended up distasteful. I tried pole fitness (yeah pole dance) and I kinda like it. I went to Muay Thai taster session, terribly interesting - I'm gonna join this. I went to a gym all by myself, which I normally will feel uncomfortable because there are lots of people in there. I went to an interview yesterday for voluntering tutor programme without preparing it at all and got recruited! Miracle!
One of the concerns of mine before coming to London is that I'm gonna lose all my 'market' here. Mat Salleh ain't gonna love me and my style. I mean, even Asians themselves don't really find me attractive.
But that just isn't the case. Different people have really different perspectives. Some thought I was cute. One said I was sweet and sexy. And you can feel how passionate he is, how his eyes only have your body, and how he's trying to feel through touch. The ending started with his eyes looking blankly at the front. He asked, 'How many years are you staying here?' I said, '3 years.' He knew this wasn't lasting forever. 'What do you do?' I asked. He laughed softly, 'I'm just a security.' We both knew this isn't gonna last.
He said he was going to study pharmacy at first, but at the end he studied applied science. A moment of silence. He is an Iranian.
I didn't dare to ask more. He stared emptily into the air. At the moment I thought I saw his disappointment.
When REALITY hits, what should people really do?
We knew there wasn't a single positive possibility.
He's huge and warm and firm. He said he'll spend more time here next time, maybe watch a film. I laughed.
Now that the application was updated into a new one and it got renewed.
All the data is gone.
Maybe this is how reality hits. him (or me).
I've always thought that English movies never really touch me deeply. I always say I feel more love in Chinese songs.
Nonetheless, now I am grateful for feeling loved...
Friday, August 26, 2016
来点Negativity
一生只有一次
这么一辈子很短暂
其实并不是真的短暂
或许有轮回有下辈子
但是没有了回忆就等于重新开始
这一辈子和下一辈子也就没有了联系
至少没有我们懂得的联系
为什么要说起短暂的人生呢
有人爱说一辈子很短不如就吃吃喝喝
为了吃为了吃 为了享受
可我却觉得我只能有这一辈子
为什么我不要去争取我要的、成为令我满意的自己呢
最近和一个老朋友联络
聊了许多她的新的人事物
让我觉得世界很宽广
她就是误打误撞进入了人生胜利组的圈子里
圈子里的人都有我想要的所有东西
颜值 钱 高度 白 高智商 家族
我想了很多
很沮丧 很自卑
我不是irreplacable
我好像只是在浪费时间
就觉得怎么做都一样 没办法突破那个Boundary
痛苦吗 痛苦
很痛苦
What a first world problem.
我并不是怨恨
只是叹气
不知道该做什么
也不知道该不做什么
可能空闲太久了。
这么一辈子很短暂
其实并不是真的短暂
或许有轮回有下辈子
但是没有了回忆就等于重新开始
这一辈子和下一辈子也就没有了联系
至少没有我们懂得的联系
为什么要说起短暂的人生呢
有人爱说一辈子很短不如就吃吃喝喝
为了吃为了吃 为了享受
可我却觉得我只能有这一辈子
为什么我不要去争取我要的、成为令我满意的自己呢
最近和一个老朋友联络
聊了许多她的新的人事物
让我觉得世界很宽广
她就是误打误撞进入了人生胜利组的圈子里
圈子里的人都有我想要的所有东西
颜值 钱 高度 白 高智商 家族
我想了很多
很沮丧 很自卑
我不是irreplacable
我好像只是在浪费时间
就觉得怎么做都一样 没办法突破那个Boundary
痛苦吗 痛苦
很痛苦
What a first world problem.
我并不是怨恨
只是叹气
不知道该做什么
也不知道该不做什么
可能空闲太久了。
Saturday, June 4, 2016
What's Up
It's comfirmed, guys.
I AM GOING TO UCL.
I have firmed it. I make Imperial College as my insurance.
(Don't ask me why despite its higher ranking LOL)
Apparently UCL would have more drinking parties. And someone less sociable like me would really need opportunities to brush up my inferior social skills.
(My friend's like 'HOW CAN SOMEONE NOT LIKE KIARRRR?')
So I was really worried about my career prospect, and even job prospect if I'm coming back for work, after my first Bachelor's degree. Yes I'll need at least this Master degree or something more for this entry-level jobs.
Do you guys find these academics stuff shirty? I sometimes do. I should stop.
BUT I AM FREAKIN' EXCITED (AND SCARED) FOR UNI LIFE!
Okay. So recently I've been in Muar for few months.
I re-visit Sunway quite frequently (so much thanks to Jing who keeps me in his room) whenever I'm too immersed in my Muarian's style.
What's Muarian's style? Scare this scare that, hesitating for doing Big thing, feeling too song in comfort zone, like to disparage, decry, denounce etc. It's not like my town is really that bad. It's just the stereotype I'm experiencing whenever I'm here.
They like to tell you those who dye their hair or did tattoos are bad and something like that. And I find it necessary to actually educate my parents about it.
Whenever I said I'm thinking of plastic surgery, my parents would throw out bad remarks such as 'unnatural', 'ai mu xu rong' and also sentence that goes like this 'If you're bad, it's pointless even if you're looking good.'
WTF so I'm like 'does that mean that if I'm good, it's okay to have tattoos (which to them it's pretty bad looking) done on me? And since I know I'm good and kind, I'm gonna do tattoo.'
Actually there's a stereotype about this tattoo thingy that I want people to really think it over.
I mean, yeah you like to say 'don't judge the book by its cover' and you've agreed to it. But now what? Tattoo = bad looking and evil. And since you dislike 'bad looking' so much, you ironically hold contempt towards plastic surgery, which is a process to make people look better. And I've heard that Americans generally think the same way - 'unnatural'. Let me tell you that Korean takes plastic surgery as a chance to upgrade themselves, hence they aren't scornful or shameful at all towards the so-called 'unnatural' surgeries.
..... SHIT OUT OF TOPIC ADY.
Going back to Sunway has been my input sources.
An old friend of mine, who is really independent, inspires me so much. She said she's the kind of person who would think of going somewhere at this moment and end up buying ticket at the next moment. And I think this is living life to the fullest. Maybe. Not just because she is rich lol (That day I was like 'wa why you pack yourself up for so many things' and she was like trying hard speaking in Mandarin 'got money got problem meh?' I think she's trying to say 'I think that's a first world problem'). Sometimes even when you can afford, you will still be scared and hesitating for so long to go somewhere alone, especially overseas where the citizens don't speak your first language. She actually signed up for diving lessons in Australia, planning to go there alone.
(The diving lessons consist of about 8 times of diving, which take place at different site. You will pass the exam after the third time of diving. She even has the chance to dive at the Great Barrier Reef, OMG!)
Okay though I can afford going to Australia or somewhere else in this gap 9-month and though I am 'inspired', I still wouldn't dare to go alone. Should find a friend and just go. And if I'm going to places where I can go alone, like Taiwan, it's so boring that I've been there quite a few times and there's simply nothing to do there especially when I'm alone. Last year I was hoping they could form a group of 5 to go to United States, but alas, everyone's busy. SHIT. I WAS REALLY EXCITED TO GO THERE. and meet my Jason. I miss him, it's legit. Though this relationship won't go far... (sob. because I'm going to UK right)
I hope you don't find this close-up too abrupt.
Till next time! It's too late to write any more.
I AM GOING TO UCL.
I have firmed it. I make Imperial College as my insurance.
(Don't ask me why despite its higher ranking LOL)
Apparently UCL would have more drinking parties. And someone less sociable like me would really need opportunities to brush up my inferior social skills.
(My friend's like 'HOW CAN SOMEONE NOT LIKE KIARRRR?')
So I was really worried about my career prospect, and even job prospect if I'm coming back for work, after my first Bachelor's degree. Yes I'll need at least this Master degree or something more for this entry-level jobs.
Do you guys find these academics stuff shirty? I sometimes do. I should stop.
BUT I AM FREAKIN' EXCITED (AND SCARED) FOR UNI LIFE!
Okay. So recently I've been in Muar for few months.
I re-visit Sunway quite frequently (so much thanks to Jing who keeps me in his room) whenever I'm too immersed in my Muarian's style.
What's Muarian's style? Scare this scare that, hesitating for doing Big thing, feeling too song in comfort zone, like to disparage, decry, denounce etc. It's not like my town is really that bad. It's just the stereotype I'm experiencing whenever I'm here.
They like to tell you those who dye their hair or did tattoos are bad and something like that. And I find it necessary to actually educate my parents about it.
Whenever I said I'm thinking of plastic surgery, my parents would throw out bad remarks such as 'unnatural', 'ai mu xu rong' and also sentence that goes like this 'If you're bad, it's pointless even if you're looking good.'
WTF so I'm like 'does that mean that if I'm good, it's okay to have tattoos (which to them it's pretty bad looking) done on me? And since I know I'm good and kind, I'm gonna do tattoo.'
Actually there's a stereotype about this tattoo thingy that I want people to really think it over.
I mean, yeah you like to say 'don't judge the book by its cover' and you've agreed to it. But now what? Tattoo = bad looking and evil. And since you dislike 'bad looking' so much, you ironically hold contempt towards plastic surgery, which is a process to make people look better. And I've heard that Americans generally think the same way - 'unnatural'. Let me tell you that Korean takes plastic surgery as a chance to upgrade themselves, hence they aren't scornful or shameful at all towards the so-called 'unnatural' surgeries.
..... SHIT OUT OF TOPIC ADY.
Going back to Sunway has been my input sources.
An old friend of mine, who is really independent, inspires me so much. She said she's the kind of person who would think of going somewhere at this moment and end up buying ticket at the next moment. And I think this is living life to the fullest. Maybe. Not just because she is rich lol (That day I was like 'wa why you pack yourself up for so many things' and she was like trying hard speaking in Mandarin 'got money got problem meh?' I think she's trying to say 'I think that's a first world problem'). Sometimes even when you can afford, you will still be scared and hesitating for so long to go somewhere alone, especially overseas where the citizens don't speak your first language. She actually signed up for diving lessons in Australia, planning to go there alone.
(The diving lessons consist of about 8 times of diving, which take place at different site. You will pass the exam after the third time of diving. She even has the chance to dive at the Great Barrier Reef, OMG!)
Okay though I can afford going to Australia or somewhere else in this gap 9-month and though I am 'inspired', I still wouldn't dare to go alone. Should find a friend and just go. And if I'm going to places where I can go alone, like Taiwan, it's so boring that I've been there quite a few times and there's simply nothing to do there especially when I'm alone. Last year I was hoping they could form a group of 5 to go to United States, but alas, everyone's busy. SHIT. I WAS REALLY EXCITED TO GO THERE. and meet my Jason. I miss him, it's legit. Though this relationship won't go far... (sob. because I'm going to UK right)
I hope you don't find this close-up too abrupt.
Till next time! It's too late to write any more.
Wednesday, April 27, 2016
Some Belated Updates
I'm back, from both my April Korea trip and my non-blogging holidays!
First thing to keep you updated is related to my US applications.
..........
Unfortunately I didn't get any good delicious offers from the university.
This is another way to say 'they rejected me'... why oh why!
Despair? Hmmm... not really. And that's what I surprised myself with!
I'd been dying for an offer to go to these schools despite the super high cost, as you can see in the previous posts.
Although it's a bit of my regret for not being able to have my undergrad studies in the States, I felt mollified, or rather unperturbed for all the rejections.
I once told myself if I'm going to these super elite schools, I will learn to be a super elite, staying in academics with all my heart in to do stuff that normal people rarely are involved in. Because that's the point, right? If you're chosen to do something that nobody can, even it isn't the best job in the world, you will need to bear that responsibility for being capable... Just like why superman needs to save the world even though there is a very bitter part: the world doesn't trust him.
But now I'm not teehee. So I will as well focus on my interests in fashion art and some musics besides biochemistry. And even if I'm going to these schools for my grad studies, I'm still gonna love to take care of my appearance. :P
Living in London for the next few years instead of Los Angeles, Philly, Ithaca etc. means there'll be fashion weeks held nearby my university.
Even though I would prefer living in California... places like LA or San Francisco, talk with ABCs....etc.
I'm probably going to UCL. It's located in the city centre of London, just like any other London uni that I've gotten offers for, ie. Imperial and King's College.
I was a bit intimidated initially after learning about the complicated VISA application (more things to plan and do now!), and knowing that I need to face it all by myself.
But after a few reviews of UCL and the London city, I am now extremely EXCITED for a new life! One of them said, every day can be a totally different day in London.
My piano teacher told me to be proud of having this prestigious chance of my life that is going to change my horizon and perspective very drammatically.
Drammatically? My life has been very 'drammatical' since the last few years of my primary school. HAHAHHAHA that's what my friend claimed when I told him about my stories. He laughed and said that I should write a novel or film a movie. I don't think these stories still matter when I finally gain the ability to actually film a good movie in the future. LOL.
What's so good about London? I can go to Paris in 2 hours. Buy some cheaper LV, Balenciaga, Gucci etc. :P I hope I have that money. Because the living cost in London is very high, even though not as high as NYC, the accommodation fee is about four to five times compared to in Sunway. *CRIES* I will survive....
Anyway, don't worry my friends. After a year there, you can always come and visit me and I'll bring you to embrace fully the lively vibe in one of the greatest city in the world called LONDON.
Second thing to tell you guys, KOREA is amazing!
I mean, I really do enjoy everything in Korea, except the ginseng chicken soup meal.
The food there is extremely tasty when it comes to Jeju Black Pig Barbecue, Dak Galbi, Kimchi, fried chicken... Other than these, hmmm most food are kinda bland and healthy, hahhaa. When it comes to these food, Kimchi is your best friend. :)
The lady boss was in the trip. So at the last day, we had a lavishly sumptuous meal in Todai, an internationally-established-and-renowned seafood and sushi buffet restaurant. Well I use 'lavishly sumptuous' not because it is really lavish or whatsoever (it was good though), but to accentuate the fact that no tour group would bring its customer to have food like this. We even stay in really good, clean and comfy hotel. So I am very satisfied with the trip. IT WAS SO GOOD.
Let's talk about what's in Korea.
Hmm... well I guess traveling to any country is almost about the same if you're not going by your own. You'll see their architecture, and listen to their culture stuff.
Buildings, museums, some tourist attraction, shopping and some good food.
Undeniably, the time I went to Korea is the perfect time for photoshooting.
The sunlight was good enough for a nice photo but not scorching at all to burn you. The weather was comfy, cool and nice. The cherry blossoms were everywhere......
Korea is more or less like Taiwan, but better (or maybe it's a prejudice...this is my first time in Korea). They are both suitable for shopping.
Shop for luxury goods in Lotte mart... the staffs can speak good Chinese and you can joke with them a lot so they don't think you're from China and they will be very good to you HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA. I bought a Tony Burch for my mum, thousands $$$$ my savings all gone WTH :( I'm eating sands and grass for the following months before heading to London, ok.
Korean has their shopping culture: they don't give discount but they give free gifts. They like to have promotion like 1+1 etc... So you can bargain with them. As my mum wanted to buy the ginseng powder, I asked the 2 golden version of ginseng tea instead of 1 golden version and 1 silver version, and they considered for a while and were okay with it!
Another important thing that makes me wanna live in Korea is that the Korean boys are so cute. I kennot. And they are generally tall (tell me why???). And I was like, my god I need a Korean bf, or at least hook up once there.
That's what I really thought when I was there *FACE COVERED*
What's the big deal? Forgive me.
First thing to keep you updated is related to my US applications.
..........
Unfortunately I didn't get any good delicious offers from the university.
This is another way to say 'they rejected me'... why oh why!
Despair? Hmmm... not really. And that's what I surprised myself with!
I'd been dying for an offer to go to these schools despite the super high cost, as you can see in the previous posts.
Although it's a bit of my regret for not being able to have my undergrad studies in the States, I felt mollified, or rather unperturbed for all the rejections.
I once told myself if I'm going to these super elite schools, I will learn to be a super elite, staying in academics with all my heart in to do stuff that normal people rarely are involved in. Because that's the point, right? If you're chosen to do something that nobody can, even it isn't the best job in the world, you will need to bear that responsibility for being capable... Just like why superman needs to save the world even though there is a very bitter part: the world doesn't trust him.
But now I'm not teehee. So I will as well focus on my interests in fashion art and some musics besides biochemistry. And even if I'm going to these schools for my grad studies, I'm still gonna love to take care of my appearance. :P
Living in London for the next few years instead of Los Angeles, Philly, Ithaca etc. means there'll be fashion weeks held nearby my university.
Even though I would prefer living in California... places like LA or San Francisco, talk with ABCs....etc.
I'm probably going to UCL. It's located in the city centre of London, just like any other London uni that I've gotten offers for, ie. Imperial and King's College.
I was a bit intimidated initially after learning about the complicated VISA application (more things to plan and do now!), and knowing that I need to face it all by myself.
But after a few reviews of UCL and the London city, I am now extremely EXCITED for a new life! One of them said, every day can be a totally different day in London.
My piano teacher told me to be proud of having this prestigious chance of my life that is going to change my horizon and perspective very drammatically.
Drammatically? My life has been very 'drammatical' since the last few years of my primary school. HAHAHHAHA that's what my friend claimed when I told him about my stories. He laughed and said that I should write a novel or film a movie. I don't think these stories still matter when I finally gain the ability to actually film a good movie in the future. LOL.
What's so good about London? I can go to Paris in 2 hours. Buy some cheaper LV, Balenciaga, Gucci etc. :P I hope I have that money. Because the living cost in London is very high, even though not as high as NYC, the accommodation fee is about four to five times compared to in Sunway. *CRIES* I will survive....
Anyway, don't worry my friends. After a year there, you can always come and visit me and I'll bring you to embrace fully the lively vibe in one of the greatest city in the world called LONDON.
Second thing to tell you guys, KOREA is amazing!
I mean, I really do enjoy everything in Korea, except the ginseng chicken soup meal.
The food there is extremely tasty when it comes to Jeju Black Pig Barbecue, Dak Galbi, Kimchi, fried chicken... Other than these, hmmm most food are kinda bland and healthy, hahhaa. When it comes to these food, Kimchi is your best friend. :)
The lady boss was in the trip. So at the last day, we had a lavishly sumptuous meal in Todai, an internationally-established-and-renowned seafood and sushi buffet restaurant. Well I use 'lavishly sumptuous' not because it is really lavish or whatsoever (it was good though), but to accentuate the fact that no tour group would bring its customer to have food like this. We even stay in really good, clean and comfy hotel. So I am very satisfied with the trip. IT WAS SO GOOD.
Let's talk about what's in Korea.
Hmm... well I guess traveling to any country is almost about the same if you're not going by your own. You'll see their architecture, and listen to their culture stuff.
Buildings, museums, some tourist attraction, shopping and some good food.
Undeniably, the time I went to Korea is the perfect time for photoshooting.
The sunlight was good enough for a nice photo but not scorching at all to burn you. The weather was comfy, cool and nice. The cherry blossoms were everywhere......
Korea is more or less like Taiwan, but better (or maybe it's a prejudice...this is my first time in Korea). They are both suitable for shopping.
Shop for luxury goods in Lotte mart... the staffs can speak good Chinese and you can joke with them a lot so they don't think you're from China and they will be very good to you HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA. I bought a Tony Burch for my mum, thousands $$$$ my savings all gone WTH :( I'm eating sands and grass for the following months before heading to London, ok.
Korean has their shopping culture: they don't give discount but they give free gifts. They like to have promotion like 1+1 etc... So you can bargain with them. As my mum wanted to buy the ginseng powder, I asked the 2 golden version of ginseng tea instead of 1 golden version and 1 silver version, and they considered for a while and were okay with it!
Another important thing that makes me wanna live in Korea is that the Korean boys are so cute. I kennot. And they are generally tall (tell me why???). And I was like, my god I need a Korean bf, or at least hook up once there.
That's what I really thought when I was there *FACE COVERED*
What's the big deal? Forgive me.
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
The Game
I am right on the emotional ride for this admission games.
Sorry if I sound too obsessive with universities...
First I was accepted to Imperial London.
Then I was accepted to Fordham, New York (yay!) with scholarships.
But then, I was rejected by UCLA.
That's the only university in Los Angeles that I applied to.
There goes a city I would want to go.
Even though this doesn't mean I won't be going to LA at all
I feel down for not being granted the chance to be its citizen,
growing my networks there.
You know there's a difference between living in a city for a few years
and traveling to a city for a few days or weeks.
You might argue that I could always work in LA if I want to.
But there's also a significant disparity between living as a student
and living as a worker.
One is to learn and immerse in the city, while another is spending
days in an unknown city, which can be really lonely.
I figured out that I didn't send my IELTS to all the UCs.
So... I wouldn't be too surprised if I see a rejection for UC, Berkeley.
Later I was rejected by Yale-NUS university in Singapore.
It's okay... S'pore is not really my tea, even though it is much better
than any cities in Malaysia.
Furthermore, I didn't even send my SAT & IELTS score, which are required, to the school. So it was really OKAY for me.
Well UCLA really hurt me a lot.
Next is Berkeley, Ivy League Schools and Stanford.
Chances aren't high.
Let's hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
I might need to go to London after these...
but if I go to London, it only proves that I shouldn't work on US application.
...Or New York City. Who knows?
Sorry if I sound too obsessive with universities...
First I was accepted to Imperial London.
Then I was accepted to Fordham, New York (yay!) with scholarships.
But then, I was rejected by UCLA.
That's the only university in Los Angeles that I applied to.
There goes a city I would want to go.
Even though this doesn't mean I won't be going to LA at all
I feel down for not being granted the chance to be its citizen,
growing my networks there.
You know there's a difference between living in a city for a few years
and traveling to a city for a few days or weeks.
You might argue that I could always work in LA if I want to.
But there's also a significant disparity between living as a student
and living as a worker.
One is to learn and immerse in the city, while another is spending
days in an unknown city, which can be really lonely.
I figured out that I didn't send my IELTS to all the UCs.
So... I wouldn't be too surprised if I see a rejection for UC, Berkeley.
Later I was rejected by Yale-NUS university in Singapore.
It's okay... S'pore is not really my tea, even though it is much better
than any cities in Malaysia.
Furthermore, I didn't even send my SAT & IELTS score, which are required, to the school. So it was really OKAY for me.
Well UCLA really hurt me a lot.
Next is Berkeley, Ivy League Schools and Stanford.
Chances aren't high.
Let's hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
I might need to go to London after these...
but if I go to London, it only proves that I shouldn't work on US application.
...Or New York City. Who knows?
Saturday, February 20, 2016
Admission Depression
The admission decision from US is still pending until late March and Early April.
This wait is killing me and I'm too bored so I browsed all the forums, talking about decisions etc. These posts are making me down yet I can't stop reading them. Perhaps I want to see the truth from different perspective. It made me more intimidated about the outcome - the outcome of my blood and tears, the outcome of the course of trial and tribulation that I've bypassed so far.
I know what I'm afraid of - rejections, but I don't know why I'm afraid.
Perhaps I adore the atmosphere of US so much.
Or perhaps I'm afraid that I'm not good - not good enough to bring myself into social and academic elitism. Afraid of failure. Afraid of emptiness after hard work.
I can't stop thinking about how they talked about perfect score.
'You need to get a perfect score so they won't toss your profile into dustbins.'
Obviously I do not have perfect SAT score.
I don't have time to retake too.
And at the moment I was feeling enough of my 2000, which is at the percentile of 93.
NO - they say you have to beat everyone.
That's what social elitism meant - the exclusive 1%.
Or perhaps I'm afraid of not being able to make my parent proud, if I can't get in.
Scared of mediocrity - I am in fear.
Scared that I couldn't change the world even if I can.
This wait is killing me and I'm too bored so I browsed all the forums, talking about decisions etc. These posts are making me down yet I can't stop reading them. Perhaps I want to see the truth from different perspective. It made me more intimidated about the outcome - the outcome of my blood and tears, the outcome of the course of trial and tribulation that I've bypassed so far.
I know what I'm afraid of - rejections, but I don't know why I'm afraid.
Perhaps I adore the atmosphere of US so much.
Or perhaps I'm afraid that I'm not good - not good enough to bring myself into social and academic elitism. Afraid of failure. Afraid of emptiness after hard work.
I can't stop thinking about how they talked about perfect score.
'You need to get a perfect score so they won't toss your profile into dustbins.'
Obviously I do not have perfect SAT score.
I don't have time to retake too.
And at the moment I was feeling enough of my 2000, which is at the percentile of 93.
NO - they say you have to beat everyone.
That's what social elitism meant - the exclusive 1%.
Or perhaps I'm afraid of not being able to make my parent proud, if I can't get in.
Scared of mediocrity - I am in fear.
Scared that I couldn't change the world even if I can.
Monday, February 1, 2016
Sharing My Sunway Experience in A-Level Studies
From the previous post THE END OF CIE A-LEVELS, I have promised to write a post about A-Levels and my relevant experience. So here it is. VERY COMPREHENSIVE from a student's point of view.......
General Certificate of Education Advanced Level is commonly known as GCE A-Level, or even more commonly, 'A-Level'.
A-Level is a type of private British pre-University education found in Malaysia.
Other private PreU educations found in Malaysia: Australian Matriculation (AUSMAT), Monash University Foundation Year (MUFY), International Baccalaureate (IB), South Australian Matriculation (SAM), Canadian International Matriculation Programme (CIMP) and Foundation found in every university).
This British qualification is offered by a few exam boards in the UK. But in Malaysia, the Cambridge International Examination (CIE) and the Edexcel are the only two that conduct A-Level exam.
For Sunway College and Taylor's College A-Level students, CIE is our common enemy.
The specific A-Levels I will be discussing is the CIE A-Level.
A-Level? Most people's impression of it (well, probably the agents) is TIME-CONSUMING, THEORY-BASED, HARD, NERDY but HIGHLY-RECOGNIZED. Some are true and some are not. Let me tell the truth.
TIME-CONSUMING - Yes, 1.5 year of A-Level is longer than the duration of other pre-U programs. Most Pre-U programs only take few months to one year. The exception is the International Baccalaureate (IB), which takes 2 years to complete.
THEORY-BASED - Hell NO. We have science practical exams in Paper 3 for our Advanced Subsidiary Level (AS) exam. It is more accurate to say A-Level is EXAM-BASED. Our overall result solely depends on our exam result.
HARD - YES. Maths is the relatively easy one. Every subject requires different skills.
For instance, Biology requires candidates to write answers with a flow and also propose possible things with the knowledge taught in the syllabus (they love to ask suggest-why questions, which we sometimes have no clues at all). In the exam, they will bring up some new industrial processes/ new experiment procedures (that you never heard of) that go oppositely with the processes/knowledge you learnt, and then you'll need to suggest why it is different from what you learn. This is good in a way that we are trained to propose/predict about why and how, and then we'll learn things faster, but this also means it's HARD.
Chemistry gives you whole lot of info and so you need to organize them yourself. Physical Chemistry has many confusing calculation problems, inorganic chemistry wants you to 'propose' the chemical equation about some new reactions.
Physics is by nature hard. And the syllabus is broad enough to increase its difficulty.
NERDY - Well it depends on people I guess. During this 1.5 year, I've improved my fashion sense and watched many movies and had explored the Kuala Lumpur city. Before exams, I went to library every day and night. I feel good to fight with CIE in the library. It feels DAMN GOOD. Am I nerdy? I don't know, but I certainly enjoyed the process.
HIGHLY-RECOGNIZED - Everyone has heard of A-level and its rigorousness. I have never seen any country that does not recognize this qualification (even Taiwan does!). So with A-level, it is easier to apply top universities and also prestigious/generous scholarships. I mean, at least your hardwork is recognized! This is one of the reason that I choose A-Levels rather than the so-called 'fast and therefore good' foundation programs. Because my qualification will be recognized everywhere, and my job was to get a good result and everything will be much easier.
Cambridge International Examination is a part of Cambridge Assessment and a department of the University of Cambridge. So taking CIE A-Levels could mean taking the curriculum of University of Cambridge. And on our certificates, Three words 'University of Cambridge' is big enough to capture your, and others', attention. Surely this indicates it is a world class curriculum.
CIE exam board is considered as the most rigorous compared to others. So its rigority is more recognized. Well, this may not be useful in the admission to UK universities because they take all exam boards as the same. Having said that, if your destination is to the US universities that are highly selective and competitive, the rigority plays a role in the admission process.
I do not know whether this applies to A-levels by other awarding body.
The science subjects syllabus is always up to date. We often learn the theory of new techniques especially in Biology. We learn lots of techniques in biotech, such as bioleaching, Monoclonal Antibody (mab)...and in gene tech. In Chemistry, we have all types of chromatography, golden nanocage, liposomes... We also have lots of lots of lots of case studies, that we need to master it and then apply into a whole new situation (In the exams, they will normally introduce a brand new application of the techniques in some recent projects). So yeah, I'll say this is world class - it evokes my intellectual curiosity consistently.
You've probably learnt that A-Level is designed to be a 24-month course.
More commonly in Malaysia, however, the course duration is merely 18 months.
Teachers always say this is kinda like an accelerated A-Level, although not as 'accelerated' as the 15-month A-Level.
So for the first 12 months, you're gonna prepare yourself for Advanced Subsidiary Level (AS). Three papers for sciences and two papers for Math. The next 6 months are for Advanced Level (AL). Two papers for sciences and two papers for Math.
As a student, you'll always think 18 months are so long, but when they are separated by a 12 months and 6 months, they are short enough. Why?
Because you'll have plenty of holidays (CNY, Raya, Sem break, study break etc...)
And the exam normally takes place at the last two months. So in fact, you're gonna only have 14 months to prepare your A-Levels.
Another thing about A-Level exam is that you really compete with candidates throughout the world. You get to know your position in the world. Regardless of your raw mark, if your percentile is above 80, you've got an A, because you're better than 80% of all the candidates around the world. In AS Level, there is no A* even if you get a percentile above 90. However you'll need to get a percentile above 90 in both AS and AL, to get an overall grade of A*.
The usage of percentile also means you do not need to get 80% of questions correct, because the questions introduced in the exams are very versatile and can be very difficult sometimes. So the usage of percentile ensures the grading is fair, and also an A in 2005 will be the same standard as an A in 2016, even though the syllabus is much different.
Initially, I was not sure about what I want. I mean, I knew that I'm interested in skincare, application of biosciences and solving the origins of life, but I did not know which field of study will bring me to these. Besides, I also wanted to do my undergraduate studies in overseas.
For many, A-level is like an extended SPM, which provides more time for people to choose what they one. Indeed, this course maintains the breadth while increases the depth of our studies.
*Some people might not want to specialize in a particular field (e.g. they are interested in learning all sciences), so for undergraduate studies in UK, they opt for a course in Natural Science to maintain the broad-ness.
The first impression of Sunway is that it is not the best to provide A-Level education (Taylor's College was the best in everyone's opinion, perhaps because it is more expensive). That suits me a lot hahaa, I don't want to go for the best. I wanted to be in a second-best, that has a definite target and that doesn't feel complacent for myself. This applies in my UK university application; I didn't apply to Cambridge or Oxford University.
Another reason is that it has a shopping mall. At that moment, I really crave for a change in living quality, appearance, taste etc. A shopping mall in Sunway would fulfill this better than the good cafes and restaurants around Taylor's College.
Thirdly, I had many friends came to Sunway for A-Levels. And they thought Sunway is amazing. (Even though, with everything it has, it is kinda self-contained.)
Also, it has an freakin' single bedroom. NAISE. AKU NAK.
Ooooo, goodie goodie gum gum.
All people, whether from the college or the university, are mixed together in the campus.
Library, foyer, cafeteria... these are the places where you can see and potentially meet people.
I also have to mention that people here have good fashion sense and very good-looking too. Hahhahaha.
It's sad tho, A-level is too short for me to familiarize and meet much more people than I could.
There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between A-Levels and SPM. SPM merely requires the absorption of knowledge from different fields, whereas in A-Levels, knowledge taught in syllabus swings from 40% to 60% in the exams. Memorizing the facts wouldn't work well in A-Levels, which in fact need lots of analysis in the exam questions.
This is what I didn't know (the agents didn't know too) when I choose A-Levels. I thought A-Levels are equally treated everywhere. However, in US university admission, A-Levels are recognized, but it is hard to find info about applying using A-Levels result. You will find many problems if you intend to go US using A-Levels due to the difference between the UK and US system.
WHAT IS A-LEVEL?
General Certificate of Education Advanced Level is commonly known as GCE A-Level, or even more commonly, 'A-Level'.
A-Level is a type of private British pre-University education found in Malaysia.
Other private PreU educations found in Malaysia: Australian Matriculation (AUSMAT), Monash University Foundation Year (MUFY), International Baccalaureate (IB), South Australian Matriculation (SAM), Canadian International Matriculation Programme (CIMP) and Foundation found in every university).
This British qualification is offered by a few exam boards in the UK. But in Malaysia, the Cambridge International Examination (CIE) and the Edexcel are the only two that conduct A-Level exam.
For Sunway College and Taylor's College A-Level students, CIE is our common enemy.
The specific A-Levels I will be discussing is the CIE A-Level.
THE RIGOR OF CIE A-LEVEL
A-Level? Most people's impression of it (well, probably the agents) is TIME-CONSUMING, THEORY-BASED, HARD, NERDY but HIGHLY-RECOGNIZED. Some are true and some are not. Let me tell the truth.
TIME-CONSUMING - Yes, 1.5 year of A-Level is longer than the duration of other pre-U programs. Most Pre-U programs only take few months to one year. The exception is the International Baccalaureate (IB), which takes 2 years to complete.
THEORY-BASED - Hell NO. We have science practical exams in Paper 3 for our Advanced Subsidiary Level (AS) exam. It is more accurate to say A-Level is EXAM-BASED. Our overall result solely depends on our exam result.
HARD - YES. Maths is the relatively easy one. Every subject requires different skills.
For instance, Biology requires candidates to write answers with a flow and also propose possible things with the knowledge taught in the syllabus (they love to ask suggest-why questions, which we sometimes have no clues at all). In the exam, they will bring up some new industrial processes/ new experiment procedures (that you never heard of) that go oppositely with the processes/knowledge you learnt, and then you'll need to suggest why it is different from what you learn. This is good in a way that we are trained to propose/predict about why and how, and then we'll learn things faster, but this also means it's HARD.
Chemistry gives you whole lot of info and so you need to organize them yourself. Physical Chemistry has many confusing calculation problems, inorganic chemistry wants you to 'propose' the chemical equation about some new reactions.
Physics is by nature hard. And the syllabus is broad enough to increase its difficulty.
NERDY - Well it depends on people I guess. During this 1.5 year, I've improved my fashion sense and watched many movies and had explored the Kuala Lumpur city. Before exams, I went to library every day and night. I feel good to fight with CIE in the library. It feels DAMN GOOD. Am I nerdy? I don't know, but I certainly enjoyed the process.
HIGHLY-RECOGNIZED - Everyone has heard of A-level and its rigorousness. I have never seen any country that does not recognize this qualification (even Taiwan does!). So with A-level, it is easier to apply top universities and also prestigious/generous scholarships. I mean, at least your hardwork is recognized! This is one of the reason that I choose A-Levels rather than the so-called 'fast and therefore good' foundation programs. Because my qualification will be recognized everywhere, and my job was to get a good result and everything will be much easier.
THE VALUE OF CIE A-LEVEL
From Cambridge
Cambridge International Examination is a part of Cambridge Assessment and a department of the University of Cambridge. So taking CIE A-Levels could mean taking the curriculum of University of Cambridge. And on our certificates, Three words 'University of Cambridge' is big enough to capture your, and others', attention. Surely this indicates it is a world class curriculum.
Adding Rigority
CIE exam board is considered as the most rigorous compared to others. So its rigority is more recognized. Well, this may not be useful in the admission to UK universities because they take all exam boards as the same. Having said that, if your destination is to the US universities that are highly selective and competitive, the rigority plays a role in the admission process.
World Class Education
I do not know whether this applies to A-levels by other awarding body.
The science subjects syllabus is always up to date. We often learn the theory of new techniques especially in Biology. We learn lots of techniques in biotech, such as bioleaching, Monoclonal Antibody (mab)...and in gene tech. In Chemistry, we have all types of chromatography, golden nanocage, liposomes... We also have lots of lots of lots of case studies, that we need to master it and then apply into a whole new situation (In the exams, they will normally introduce a brand new application of the techniques in some recent projects). So yeah, I'll say this is world class - it evokes my intellectual curiosity consistently.
STRUCTURE OF THE COURSE
You've probably learnt that A-Level is designed to be a 24-month course.
More commonly in Malaysia, however, the course duration is merely 18 months.
Teachers always say this is kinda like an accelerated A-Level, although not as 'accelerated' as the 15-month A-Level.
So for the first 12 months, you're gonna prepare yourself for Advanced Subsidiary Level (AS). Three papers for sciences and two papers for Math. The next 6 months are for Advanced Level (AL). Two papers for sciences and two papers for Math.
As a student, you'll always think 18 months are so long, but when they are separated by a 12 months and 6 months, they are short enough. Why?
Because you'll have plenty of holidays (CNY, Raya, Sem break, study break etc...)
And the exam normally takes place at the last two months. So in fact, you're gonna only have 14 months to prepare your A-Levels.
Another thing about A-Level exam is that you really compete with candidates throughout the world. You get to know your position in the world. Regardless of your raw mark, if your percentile is above 80, you've got an A, because you're better than 80% of all the candidates around the world. In AS Level, there is no A* even if you get a percentile above 90. However you'll need to get a percentile above 90 in both AS and AL, to get an overall grade of A*.
The usage of percentile also means you do not need to get 80% of questions correct, because the questions introduced in the exams are very versatile and can be very difficult sometimes. So the usage of percentile ensures the grading is fair, and also an A in 2005 will be the same standard as an A in 2016, even though the syllabus is much different.
WHY DO YOU CHOOSE A-LEVEL
Initially, I was not sure about what I want. I mean, I knew that I'm interested in skincare, application of biosciences and solving the origins of life, but I did not know which field of study will bring me to these. Besides, I also wanted to do my undergraduate studies in overseas.
For many, A-level is like an extended SPM, which provides more time for people to choose what they one. Indeed, this course maintains the breadth while increases the depth of our studies.
*Some people might not want to specialize in a particular field (e.g. they are interested in learning all sciences), so for undergraduate studies in UK, they opt for a course in Natural Science to maintain the broad-ness.
WHY DO YOU CHOOSE SUNWAY
The first impression of Sunway is that it is not the best to provide A-Level education (Taylor's College was the best in everyone's opinion, perhaps because it is more expensive). That suits me a lot hahaa, I don't want to go for the best. I wanted to be in a second-best, that has a definite target and that doesn't feel complacent for myself. This applies in my UK university application; I didn't apply to Cambridge or Oxford University.
Another reason is that it has a shopping mall. At that moment, I really crave for a change in living quality, appearance, taste etc. A shopping mall in Sunway would fulfill this better than the good cafes and restaurants around Taylor's College.
Thirdly, I had many friends came to Sunway for A-Levels. And they thought Sunway is amazing. (Even though, with everything it has, it is kinda self-contained.)
Also, it has an freakin' single bedroom. NAISE. AKU NAK.
SUNWAY EXPERIENCE
Ooooo, goodie goodie gum gum.
All people, whether from the college or the university, are mixed together in the campus.
Library, foyer, cafeteria... these are the places where you can see and potentially meet people.
I also have to mention that people here have good fashion sense and very good-looking too. Hahhahaha.
It's sad tho, A-level is too short for me to familiarize and meet much more people than I could.
WHO SHOULD CHOOSE A-LEVELS?
THOSE WHO STILL NOT SURE ABOUT WHICH SPECIFIC MAJOR TO STUDY
These people normally already have an idea about what field they want, but are not sure about the specific major (They know they wanna be in science, finance, accounting, engineering etc.). A-Levels provide a chance for them to further their studies in each fundamental areas, so that they have a taste of what it feels like to be in, say, further math (for engineering).
THOSE WHO NEEDED A INTERNATIONALLY-RECOGNIZED QUALIFICATION
A recognized qualification is a smart investment. You can apply to many prestigious universities and scholarships with A-Levels. If you need to put on the same effort on your preU studies, why don't you choose something that people will recognize/reward your effort?
THOSE WHO CAN TAKE UP ACADEMIC CHALLENGE THAT DIFFERS FROM OUR SECONDARY EDUCATION
There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between A-Levels and SPM. SPM merely requires the absorption of knowledge from different fields, whereas in A-Levels, knowledge taught in syllabus swings from 40% to 60% in the exams. Memorizing the facts wouldn't work well in A-Levels, which in fact need lots of analysis in the exam questions.
THOSE WHO WANT TO GO OVERSEAS BUT SLIGHTLY PREFER THE UK UNIS
This is what I didn't know (the agents didn't know too) when I choose A-Levels. I thought A-Levels are equally treated everywhere. However, in US university admission, A-Levels are recognized, but it is hard to find info about applying using A-Levels result. You will find many problems if you intend to go US using A-Levels due to the difference between the UK and US system.
BOTTOM LINE:
The A-Level experiences were actually very good for me. It made me see a bigger, and more complete world. The encouraging environment is very conducive for learning and exploring.
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